Ecclesiastes 3:1-15, A Time for Everything

There is an appointed time for everything......
A time to give birth, a time to die;
A time to plant, and a time to uproot what is planted.
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to tear down, and a time to build up.
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance.
A time to throw stones, and a time to gather stones;
A time to embrace, and a time to shun embracing.
A time to search, and a time to give up lost;
A time to keep, and a time to throw away.
A time to love, and a time to hate;
A time for war, and a time for peace.

难乎？易乎？ 不难，也不易！[转载]

（ 一 ）

    难！真的难！
    做人难，难做人！人生在世，难字当头！谁说做人不难？
    做男人难，男人要刚强，男人要有事业，男人要有一个坚强的臂膀提供一个舒适温暖的港湾，好男儿要志在四方，男人，还要有泪不轻弹……
    做女人难，做一个好女人难，做一个优秀的好女人更难！女人要温柔，女人要美丽，女人也缺少不了智慧，女人要奉献，女人还要不能迷失自己……

    创业难，创业岂是儿戏！你要办企业，你要丢掉你舒适的工作环境和旱劳保收，你要冒多大的风险？资金，生产，技术，销售，人员，管理……一分钱压到英雄汉， 资金周转不过来怎么办？技术不过关，技术人员留不住怎么办？销售打不开局面怎么办？销售人员跳槽带走客户怎么办？市场瞬息万变，天有不测风云，破产怎么 办？怎是一个难字了得！
    ……

（ 二 ）

    谁说都是难？谁说那么难？做人难么？做事难么？创业难么？——事在人为！活人会让尿憋死？
    世上事没有做不到，只有想不到！人定可以胜天！心有多高，世界就有多大。我修身，我齐家，我可平天下！
    不想当将军的士兵不是好士兵，有哪个将军是天生下来就是的？王侯将相，宁有种乎？燕雀安知我鸿浩之志？
    我想行，我就一定能行！有志者，我事必成！给我一个支点，我能把地球支起！是啊，现在不是流行励志么，不是说人人都能成功么？

    人家才大老粗，企业搞得这么大，难道我大学生不如他？我有技术有知识，我不行？我很年轻有志气，我不能？我懂行我善交际，我不能成功？我一定能成功，我肯定能比他们成功，他们肯定不是我的对手，我要成为业内第一，我的企业一定不会浑浑噩噩……创业么，容易！
   ……

（ 三 ）

    那么，真那么难么？——不难，没有想象的那么难；或者，真那么易么？——不易，也没有想象的那么易；所谓的“不难，也不易”。

    对于到处都是一个难字的人来说，对于难字当头的人来说，很多的难，其实，是自己难倒了自己！是畏难情绪，未战之前，自己把自己给打倒了！那么，这世上，岂有不难之事！

    一个未上学之前，就被灌输，就已认为学习是一件很难的事的孩子，他的学习，自然是难的；因为他首先失去了自信，因为他不相信自己，因而他遇到困难时，总是在找借口，而不是找方法，他的学习注定是难的！

    一个想创业的人，如果他创业之前，认为这个世界是黑暗的，看不到光明，那他首先就迈不开这第一步，即使勉强迈了步，遇到困难，肯定想的是退却和逃避，他就 不会有积极的心态，就不能坚持，就不能忍耐，就承受不了挫折，就像是，秀才造反，三年不成！那么他的创业，在开始之先，就注定了失败，他的难，是注定的！
    真正的学习，真正的创业，没有你想象的那么难，那么多的不可能。

    当然，任何事，也不会像我们，想象的那么易。任何事，真正做好它，都不容易。这世上，没有天上掉下的馅儿饼，有得到，就有付出，有选择，就有承担。我们往 往容易看到别人的成功，而忽视这成功后隐藏的机遇、付出和酸甜苦辣。而且，不是所有的士兵都当得了将军，也不能人人都成得了大英雄，很多时候，人定，但胜 不了天；很多时候，谋事在人，成事却在天。

    难乎？易乎？不难，也不易。
    因为不难，我们在战略上要藐视敌人；因为不易，我们在战术上要重视敌人。
    因为不难，我们就要解放思想；因为不易，我们就要谨慎行事。
    因为不难，我们要相信自己；因为不易，我们要尊重客观规律。
    因为，不难，也不易，我们就有了一份自信，有了一份从容，我们便有了一个良好的心态……

惊讶！+ Stuck in Making Decision!

今天回去学校。看见 Pn Hii！
表面上是说不想看见老师，可是心里却是想知道每一个现在过得好不好。
看见了 Pn Hii ，发现她老了许多。
跟去年比起来真的是差很远了。
到了办公室，看见许多的老师。
突然之间，感到很惊讶。
心里在问到：“为什么每一个老师都那么的憔悴了？”
尤其是看见 Ms Connie 时，她不只憔悴了。
突然发现，她的白发也多了许多。
Haiz！
今天回去的原因是因为要帮忙 check Annual Report 。
过后，就载 Freda 回家。
一路上，聊了许多东西。
还说到学校里的老师们呢！
她也发现最近的老师憔悴了许多。
还说到她的 mummy 。
她也说 mummy 最近老了很多。
可是不知道是为什么了。
真不敢想三年后回来看他们，他们会变成怎样了！
不过，不管怎样，还是那一句话 “一定要天天开心以及身体健康！”

Continue with another story.
Now! I'm stuck in making decision on going to which college!
Can I scold bad word first?
Shit! Damn it!
Now, continue.
I went for 2 interview.
One is KL Sime Darby Healthcare which is a self pay college.
Another one is Penang Adventist Hospital which is getting scholarship.
Problems come after those interview.
I was stuck in the middle of this 2 college.
First, Penang which is getting scholarship.
Dad ask me put open scholarship.
It simply means that if Penang Adventist Hospital don't sponsor me then I open for all the hospital in Penang to sponsor me.
But until now I'm still in the waiting list.
It is going to be May soon. Or should I say after 2 more days will be May?
I need to make a decision out by May on which college I would want to go.
But now in waiting list, what can I do?
HaizZz...
Hope I will get their call in this few days.
As for KL Sime Darby Healthcare, it is self pay.
So after I confirm to go into this college I need to pay the deposit of RM450.00.
But now stuck!
Penang didn't call up. So I can't simply enroll myself into KL.
How if Penang call me up in early of June and tell me that I got the scholarship?
And that time I already out my deposit in KL.
HaizZz...
It was a difficult decision.
Please give me some advice!
Really really need advice from all of you who saw this post.

Changing of perspectives?!

I was just thinking of what is it going to be like if a guy can change his perspectives of mind? For example, doing the job which is usually done by ladies like Nurses, Teachers and etc. If all this jobs, guys also manage to do it then will all the ladies going to become jobless? I think the answer will be a YES! Definitely will! Actually this kind of thoughts have been in my mind for quite a few days already. That day when I went for Sime Darby Helathcare Seminar the guy was just saying this. And it makes me feel that he is right actually. If a guy is willing to become a Nurse in 1 day then ladies is going to stay at home! There will be no more job for ladies in this world. But will all the guys change their perspectives of thinking? This was what I was wandering for these few days. Hope that I will have an answer very soon.